The Secret Habit : Masturbation

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Masturbation

What does masturbation mean?

Masturbation is an activity that one does to satisfy their sexual desire, and, as a result, one reaches maximum sexual pleasure through it. This activity can be done in a lot of different ways. One way is via the hand, in what is called masturbation.

The Secret Habit : Masturbation

Epidemiology

Both sexes perform masturbation but rates are higher among males than among females.
As per latest studies conducted in the USA—where sexual freedom is vast—it is discovered that 95% of males and 55% of females are doers of the secret habit.

The secret habit and life

Many people ask about the benefits and harms of this habit and what impact it has on the life of the person doing it in addition to lots of other related questions.
Every human being when born has five following instincts:
1- Hunger.
2- Fear.
3- Thirst.
4- Sex.
5- Motherhood and fatherhood, which is realized after marriage.
We oftentimes notice that a child at certain stage plays with their genitals or that when the child is carried by his mother or another person, they try to rub against the clothes of the person carrying them and have a joyful feeling, without knowing that this feeling is the start of the sexual pleasure. But what is our reaction to or way of dealing with such behaviors?

These are frightening, scolding, rebuking, and even hurting. But we all know that forbidden fruit is sweet, so, for example, we tell our children not to smoke and that they will be punished if they do, so we do not try to tell them do you know that each cigarette contains 4070 chemical substances, 67 of which are substances that cause lung cancer, not to mention other harmful effects?

But, wow, what are the harmful effects of the secret habit?
1- It is a process that if a person does, it turns into a habit that is difficult to get rid of.
2- If done excessively, it causes an overall physical weakness along with joints pains.
3- Feeling of guilt after each time.
4- Emergence of psychological problems.

I will speak the language of science—because our friends are from various religions and sects with all due respect to everyone—and will say that we have three ladders:
1- The first ladder: the ladder of chasteness and not going after sexual desires until marriage.
2- The second ladder: fulfilling sexual desires through masturbation.
3- The third ladder: satisfying your sexual desires by having sex with the opposite gender.

Among the three ladders, this one is the most dangerous, the most feared, and the furthest away from righteousness. Therefore, it is our duty to tell all youth, boys and girls: stay in the first ladder as much as you can as it is safer and better for you and for your future, but if you had to and so as not to slip into the third ladder, stay in the second ladder which gives an answer to this sexual desire.

Tips for quitting the secret habit

But we must always say “excess of anything is harmful” and we keep saying to anyone trying to get rid of the habit that you should:
1- keep yourself occupied with other beneficial activities such as sports, reading, and going out.
2- avoid being alone as much as you can.
3- avoid watching seductive and pornographic materials and avoid channels of bad reputation.

Finally we wish good luck to all young boys and girls.

 

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